Relationships
I lost two of my best friends in this world earlier this year, within weeks of each other. Lita. I feel like nobody wants to hear about her. I think most expect me to be "over it," by now - all of three months after her death, which was incredibly traumatic to watch. I haven't even told most people the details of it because I'm afraid of traumatizing them. D. Yeah, I did complain about him. A lot. He did not treat me with much respect. But I still love him as my friend. I have for over a decade. And he was here. Until he wasn't. Most people would not agree with me on this, but I'd rather have a bad friend (to an extent anyway) than no friend. I've been doing a ton of thinking abut relationships this year -- friendships and romantic relationships. I've been figuring out what I want and don't want. What I want in my friendships and love life are pretty much the same with a few exceptions (noted). Honesty, compassion, consideration, open ...